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I have been married to my husband for three years now. Our relationship was actually great from the beginning, otherwise I wouldn't have married him. :-) But since a few months, actually since I started my new job, he is constantly harassing me. He calls early in the morning when he knows I should be on my way to work and asks where I am. The whole thing is terribly annoying to me. I want to concentrate on driving. But then he doesn't want to be turned away either, but hangs up only when I say that I'm at the company now. When the radio is on in the background, he thinks someone is with me. And at noon, the game continues. He calls and wants to know who I'm having lunch with and who's talking in the background. I just want to eat in peace, but he won't leave me alone. I'm already completely uncomfortable in front of my colleagues, but I can't just ignore the call. I have already tried that. He has called me several times and in the evenings he has harassed me and grabbed me by the neck. He would then just say things like "I'll .... you up if you push my calls away, you ......" Once I spontaneously arranged to meet up with girlfriends after work and texted him that we were still going to the bar at my work. I had ultra fun with my female colleagues, until suddenly my husband showed up. And my female colleagues also thought they were in the wrong movie. I don't know what to do. I would like things to go back to the way they used to be, but my husband, apparently out of jealousy, terrorizes me every damn day. I can't take it anymore. And when I call him on it, he always thinks I want something from my new colleagues and gets physical. Do you have any advice for me?
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I have been married to my husband for three years now. Our relationship was actually great from the beginning, otherwise I wouldn't have married him. :-) But since a few months, actually since I started my new job, he is constantly harassing me. He calls early in the morning when he knows I should be on my way to work and asks where I am. The whole thing is terribly annoying to me. I want to concentrate on driving. But then he doesn't want to be turned away either, but hangs up only when I say that I'm at the company now. When the radio is on in the background, he thinks someone is with me. And at noon, the game continues. He calls and wants to know who I'm having lunch with and who's talking in the background. I just want to eat in peace, but he won't leave me alone. I'm already completely uncomfortable in front of my colleagues, but I can't just ignore the call. I have already tried that. He has called me several times and in the evenings he has harassed me and grabbed me by the neck. He would then just say things like "I'll .... you up if you push my calls away, you ......" Once I spontaneously arranged to meet up with girlfriends after work and texted him that we were still going to the bar at my work. I had ultra fun with my female colleagues, until suddenly my husband showed up. And my female colleagues also thought they were in the wrong movie. I don't know what to do. I would like things to go back to the way they used to be, but my husband, apparently out of jealousy, terrorizes me every damn day. I can't take it anymore. And when I call him on it, he always thinks I want something from my new colleagues and gets physical. Do you have any advice for me?