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My partner and I are newly married, about half a year.
Weeks before the marriage, she started to become more and more aggressive. At first I didn't think anything of it and blamed it on the stress of preparing for the wedding. I put up with all the outbursts and rarely said anything about them, because I am generally a very calm and understanding person. We had, with a few incidents, a very beautiful and also great wedding. But her outbursts did not stop even after that.
In the meantime, it has reached the point that she not only slaps me more often, but also throws things at me. Unfortunately, this also includes dishes, which can be really dangerous. But why is she like that? Sure she has always been very quick-tempered and I also found her temperament very attractive in the beginning. But now I can't even say anything without her immediately running her mouth over mine. I am very embarrassed as a man to talk to anyone about this, but I always have to find some excuse for my bruises. What can I do to gain respect? She treats me like dirt, but then why did she marry me in the first place?
Weeks before the marriage, she started to become more and more aggressive. At first I didn't think anything of it and blamed it on the stress of preparing for the wedding. I put up with all the outbursts and rarely said anything about them, because I am generally a very calm and understanding person. We had, with a few incidents, a very beautiful and also great wedding. But her outbursts did not stop even after that.
In the meantime, it has reached the point that she not only slaps me more often, but also throws things at me. Unfortunately, this also includes dishes, which can be really dangerous. But why is she like that? Sure she has always been very quick-tempered and I also found her temperament very attractive in the beginning. But now I can't even say anything without her immediately running her mouth over mine. I am very embarrassed as a man to talk to anyone about this, but I always have to find some excuse for my bruises. What can I do to gain respect? She treats me like dirt, but then why did she marry me in the first place?