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My best friend has been with her boyfriend for about two years. And even though I think they're really cute together and have encouraged her for a long time to try it with him, because she's been interested in him for ages and he in her, but somehow both of them didn't really dare, I'm now looking at their relationship with concern, because she keeps telling me how he puts himself above her and tries to determine. Honestly I feel a bit responsible because I always gave her so much courage, because I also honestly thought he would be a great boyfriend for her....
She is a rather permissive person. She loves short tight dresses, wide necklines and lots of makeup and don't get me wrong, she looks classy but her boyfriend takes that as an opportunity to be snarky about her. He says she dresses way too revealing and he is ashamed of her. The whole thing went so far that he didn't want to let her out of the door at all and was more and more derogatory about her as a person. He acts as if her style of dress has anything to do with her character and tries to change her all the time.
I have talked to her about it many times, because of course she suffers from it, but still nothing changes.... I don't know how to behave....