I have gained 25 kilos the last 8 years due to menopause. It is a burden on myself. Even worse is how my husband behaves. For me it is slowly but surely turning into a kind of bullying. Last weeks we went shopping. I used to love going to the city with him. Now I don't want to anymore and I'm actually starting to dread it. He insisted on it. He needed a new suit for his work and since I have good taste, he wanted me to be there.

Until then it was still going well. I should pick out a new pair of jeans again. He loves women with a bubble butt in jeans. It ended in disaster. Wrinkles formed on my stomach. He grumbled at me in front of everyone that I had just gotten fat and that I would only fit into a Walle dress. Afterwards, I...