Whenever we have a fight - which is not that often - my husband plays with my well-known fear of loss. In his opinion, I drink too much and too often. However, this has now become a cycle for me that I have a hard time getting out of. It is so that when I have stress with my parents or his parents, then I turn to him seeking help. Then when he thinks these are some things I shouldn't be bothering him with, he plays on my fear of loss and threatens to move out and sell the house. I have already sought psychological help here. Unfortunately, this cannot be done without a partner appointment. And there my husband also refuses. On other days - most of the time - he is obliging to me. But even then I am close to the abyss and close to tears, because...