My husband bullies our common daughter

Since my daughter is in puberty and admittedly has become very demanding, my husband mobs her permanently. I also get upset when our Jenny hangs on her smartphone all day and doesn't help around the house. But then my husband gets really loud and yells that she is wayward and that he wishes he never had her. It really hurts my heart. And even if Jenny doesn't make a face, it won't pass her by without a trace. Our little one - he is 6 - always starts to cry then. And somehow the situation also destroys our harmonious family. I also experience that my son says the same stupid things to Jenny as my husband. I can still talk to the little one and admonish him that he shouldn't do that. But as...