Allegedly having sex with boss and all colleagues shunning me !

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Allegedly having sex with boss and all colleagues shunning me !

I have been working for about half a year, as a clerk in an office. At the beginning, my colleagues were very nice to me and included me in all activities, even outside working hours. However, this situation changed the day after the Christmas party. At the Christmas party, alcohol flowed in streams. Having no interest in getting senselessly drunk, I left the party early. My boss wanted to leave just as early to be with his family before midnight, so we left the company party at the same time. The next day, my colleagues at work behaved very distant towards me. During the lunch break, I plucked up my courage and asked a colleague if I was wrong about this and what the reason was. She said that everything knew that I had had sex with our boss and that it was an impertinence because I didn't seem to care that he was married and had children. My protestations that nothing like that had happened were met with a smug smile. Since then, work colleagues have shunned my company, randomly spilling their drinks on my workplace and calling me an office ...... I am already at a loss, because I am not aware of any guilt and I cannot imagine changing jobs at the moment because I am dependent on the money. I am already so desperate

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If I were you, I would seek a dialogue with your superior, because only he is in a position to clarify and remedy the situation. I find it hard to believe that he hasn't heard about these complaints yet. After leaving the party, did you take a cab or public transportation together? Did you get in the car with him and get a ride home? That would be a logical explanation for why your co-workers don't believe you didn't have a one-night stand with your boss.

In any case, I'm keeping my fingers crossed that everything will calm down quickly and that you'll be reintegrated into the circle of your colleagues. But if there is no change in the situation or if your boss is not willing to settle the matter, I would consider changing jobs for you, despite all the financial problems. Money alone will not make you happy and if your psyche is affected and you may even need therapy to overcome the harassment from your colleagues, you may as well pay your therapist.

I wish you good luck and it would be nice if you could tell us on this forum how you got through the discussion.