Hello, I have been together with my boyfriend for about half a year. Therefore, I don't know him very well in terms of character yet and I suspect that I am being bullied by him or his friends. They are not all his friends, but only two specific ones from his circle of friends. When one of them or both of them are visiting us and I'm not standing right there during conversations, they whisper to my friend behind my back. And I'm not imagining it, because whenever I join in, the voices get quieter and quieter. When I then ask what it's about, they just say they were talking about work. Then when the friends have left, my friend is like changed and behaves downright vicious. Therefore, I suspect a connection with the whispering of the friends. Can you guys maybe help me out? What should I do and is this bullying?
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They talk about me behind my back: is this bullying?
Hello, I have been together with my boyfriend for about half a year. Therefore, I don't know him very well in terms of character yet and I suspect that I am being bullied by him or his friends. They are not all his friends, but only two specific ones from his circle of friends. When one of them or both of them are visiting us and I'm not standing right there during conversations, they whisper to my friend behind my back. And I'm not imagining it, because whenever I join in, the voices get quieter and quieter. When I then ask what it's about, they just say they were talking about work. Then when the friends have left, my friend is like changed and behaves downright vicious. Therefore, I suspect a connection with the whispering of the friends. Can you guys maybe help me out? What should I do and is this bullying?