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Man chatting all day, new girlfriend on the Internet ?
Hello,
Since a few weeks I noticed that my husband is just squatting in front of the PC all evening. First I thought he was surfing or playing normally, but then I saw that he is often online on a certain chat site. He says that he is talking to people there about sports and music, and that everything is quite harmless. The other day, when he went away from the computer for a long time to talk on the phone, I took a look at his chat history: he's been texting with the same woman the whole time. They weren't flirting directly, but I still find it strange. This must have been going on for at least two weeks. When I asked him about it he freaked out and said I didn't trust him. I am totally insecure. What if he has fallen in love with this other woman? He has been totally cold to me for a long time and complains about everything. Nothing has been going on in bed for months because he thinks I'm too fat. This hurts me very much. I would like to spend more time with him, sometimes I even plan romantic evenings, but he thinks it's silly and escapes to the TV or the PC after a short time. It is slowly driving me crazy. Since the last fight he changed the password of the computer, I can't even start it alone to surf. This can't go on like this! Does anyone have an idea how I can get him off this stupid chat site? I
Thanks for your (hopefully incoming) answers
Hello,
Since a few weeks I noticed that my husband is just squatting in front of the PC all evening. First I thought he was surfing or playing normally, but then I saw that he is often online on a certain chat site. He says that he is talking to people there about sports and music, and that everything is quite harmless. The other day, when he went away from the computer for a long time to talk on the phone, I took a look at his chat history: he's been texting with the same woman the whole time. They weren't flirting directly, but I still find it strange. This must have been going on for at least two weeks. When I asked him about it he freaked out and said I didn't trust him. I am totally insecure. What if he has fallen in love with this other woman? He has been totally cold to me for a long time and complains about everything. Nothing has been going on in bed for months because he thinks I'm too fat. This hurts me very much. I would like to spend more time with him, sometimes I even plan romantic evenings, but he thinks it's silly and escapes to the TV or the PC after a short time. It is slowly driving me crazy. Since the last fight he changed the password of the computer, I can't even start it alone to surf. This can't go on like this! Does anyone have an idea how I can get him off this stupid chat site? I
Thanks for your (hopefully incoming) answers
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