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I am new here on the forum and I have a question on my mind that has been going through my head for weeks. Does my partner want to get rid of me by bullying me? My boyfriend and I have been together for almost four years now and until three months ago we got along great, but since then our relationship has cooled down quite a bit. At first I thought it could be fixed, but now I have my doubts. My boyfriend tries to get me down on a daily basis. For example, he nags me about my appearance and tells me things like: Lose weight, you're getting fatter and fatter, and he uses every opportunity to show me how stupid I am in his eyes. The bad thing is that I'm already starting to feel self-doubt, which makes me feel self-conscious. I feel as if he wants to get rid of me. So my question is, is this bullying or is he just being mean? What would you do in my place?
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I am new here on the forum and I have a question on my mind that has been going through my head for weeks. Does my partner want to get rid of me by bullying me? My boyfriend and I have been together for almost four years now and until three months ago we got along great, but since then our relationship has cooled down quite a bit. At first I thought it could be fixed, but now I have my doubts. My boyfriend tries to get me down on a daily basis. For example, he nags me about my appearance and tells me things like: Lose weight, you're getting fatter and fatter, and he uses every opportunity to show me how stupid I am in his eyes. The bad thing is that I'm already starting to feel self-doubt, which makes me feel self-conscious. I feel as if he wants to get rid of me. So my question is, is this bullying or is he just being mean? What would you do in my place?