Beaten - is he doing it again? I don't know how to start at all.

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Beaten - is he doing it again? I don't know how to start at all. My partnership with Philipp has been very happy so far. But it all started with my job loss. For ... years we have been a couple, but not married. Nine months ago, I lost two important clients. I am working as a freelancer. Unfortunately, I only have two left. I felt the same way as many self-employed people during the pandemic. Philipp is very materialistic. He earns well, and as long as things went well for me financially and I contributed my share to the household, everything was no problem. But it changed massively the last half year. I simply ran out of money. He treats me badly. Constantly shows me that I'm not worth anything and last weekend his hand slipped. Never could have imagined it would come to this. He is an emotional person, but hitting? He apologized immediately. But the anger in his eyes remained. What am I supposed to do now? Does anyone have experience with such a lapse of his partner? Should I leave? But where? At the moment I am with a friend for a few days, but this does not work in the long run. He keeps trying to talk to me. After his apology, I just packed a few things. I don't want to talk about it with my parents. I need help from people who have experienced something like this themselves. On top of all the problems, there is this. His rejection of me for material reasons will remain either way.

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Money is always an important argument. When it becomes less, there are almost always problems. Currently we rush into an inflation and the money becomes less and less, with almost all. Means: it crises in many partnerships.