Sexual assaults in the family are on the increase. Why is that? The options for defending oneself are still limited, especially for children. The other family members see it, but they look the other way...


Why? The problem is probably that you have to live with the person you report later.

This results in incredibly complicated situations. It is therefore understandable that people avoid these problems.

Who has a solution?




There are also more and more “....os” with children on the internet. Why is interest in this constantly increasing?...

Sexual assault in the form of ridicule

I've noticed that people are 'ridiculously flirting' with people who look hermaphroditic, e.g. a woman wearing practical clothes ("men's clothes") and short hair. Or a man wears fetish clothes ("women's fashion") and long hair, then sometimes someone comes up and acts interested or makes suggestive gestures from a distance.

Personally, I've seen other women make fun of more masculine women in this way. I often think this should also be seen as sexual assault. This form of ridicule is very destructive when you're already in a bad position in life.

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It's probably strange to write something on this topic as a man. Most of the time, it's probably us men who get assaulted. But in my partnership it is so that my girlfriend does not accept my boundaries.
I have to say that as a child I had to experience my mother going over my limits. After bathing on Saturdays, she used to dry me off while stroking me uncomfortably. I didn't want it, but didn't resist either. My girlfriend likes to take the initiative during sex and caress me. Most of the time I think it's nice, but sometimes feelings from before come up and I can't stand the touches, especially in my private parts. Then I literally freeze, the old feelings of powerlessness are back.
I tell her to stop. Sometimes I even hold her...