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Problems in my marriage
I don't really know now if I'm in the right place, but I'll just write:
I have the following problem:
I have been married to my husband for 10 years now and in the last few months it is getting more and more difficult between us. We fight over trivial things and just yell at each other. Everything I do is wrong and is also discussed forever. Whether it's the household or my style of dress, everything seems wrong by now. He even complains about my figure and constantly tells me that I need to go on a diet. I just feel bullied.
He didn't used to be like this at all, he was loving, charming and attentive. I don't know what caused this change in him. I feel permanently uncomfortable when he is in the same room and he doesn't want to sleep with me anymore either. Is there anything else I can do? Talking doesn't help, it always ends up in an argument. Is it time to separate or would therapy help with something like this? Have you gone through similar phases in your marriage, does it just pass at some point? I still love him and don't want to lose him, but if it continues like this, I just can't go on.
I don't really know now if I'm in the right place, but I'll just write:
I have the following problem:
I have been married to my husband for 10 years now and in the last few months it is getting more and more difficult between us. We fight over trivial things and just yell at each other. Everything I do is wrong and is also discussed forever. Whether it's the household or my style of dress, everything seems wrong by now. He even complains about my figure and constantly tells me that I need to go on a diet. I just feel bullied.
He didn't used to be like this at all, he was loving, charming and attentive. I don't know what caused this change in him. I feel permanently uncomfortable when he is in the same room and he doesn't want to sleep with me anymore either. Is there anything else I can do? Talking doesn't help, it always ends up in an argument. Is it time to separate or would therapy help with something like this? Have you gone through similar phases in your marriage, does it just pass at some point? I still love him and don't want to lose him, but if it continues like this, I just can't go on.