"Marriage / Partnerships"

My husband was considered perfect in my family for a long time. He had a job, with which he earned above average, looked good and presented himself as a loving partner. Unfortunately, this outer facade had already developed deep cracks shortly after our wedding. He became an alcoholic and tended to be aggressive.

Whenever he drank too much, which was quite often, he wanted to have sex with me. Refusal led to punishment. This meant that he beat me when I was not willing to him. Eyes closed and through was not a sensible alternative, because also the following sex, was determined by brutality.

I tried to confide in our relatives, but they didn't want to know about it and...

Problems in my marriage

I don't really know now if I'm in the right place, but I'll just write:

I have the following problem:
I have been married to my husband for 10 years now and in the last few months it is getting more and more difficult between us. We fight over trivial things and just yell at each other. Everything I do is wrong and is also discussed forever. Whether it's the household or my style of dress, everything seems wrong by now. He even complains about my figure and constantly tells me that I need to go on a diet. I just feel bullied.

He didn't used to be like this at all, he was loving, charming and attentive. I don't know what caused this change in him. I feel permanently uncomfortable...