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No money and psychological problems. What else can be expected but third-rate compensation. Be glad that the story is over. You just can't help some people.
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Eine schlechte Wahrheit ist besser als eine gute Lüge !
Une mauvaise vérité vaut mieux qu'un bon mensonge !
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@ Boston - a bit harsh, but appropriate !
General : What strikes me is the problem with the air conditioner. One can be divided on that, because air conditioners are harmful because they heat up the climate even more. But !!! People who travel extensively damage the climate to a much greater extent. One hour of driving a car causes more climate problems than the air conditioner does in 10 hours. This woman is a pharisee or has no idea about physics.Kommentar
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I didn't read the whole thing. The text was too long for me. But, if I have understood correctly, you have financed the holiday and should then also do the kitchen duty. It could hardly be more outrageous! I wouldn't be surprised if she then claimed that she knew before the holiday that you weren't the right person for her, but still let herself be paid for the holiday. There is a very unpleasant word for it.Kommentar
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My advice, just forget about the woman! You can see that you're not getting anywhere with your considerations. The internet is full of women who are looking for a partner. Especially when you are generous and finance the holiday!Kommentar
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That with helping in the kitchen is absolute nonsense ! You finance the vacation and for that you are allowed to do the dishes ? I was in France for years and was invited by the most different social classes. Kitchen service for the guest ? An absolute impossibility. More impudently it does not go any more!
As for the "therapy-resistant dybbuk" : I don't want to make a remote diagnosis now, but the symptoms described sound bad. This becomes a problem especially with increasing age.
Good if you have no more contact with the "lady".
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For me, Corona and the heatwave also destroyed a friendship. In general, people are worried. Inflation and the war in Ukraine have also been added to the mix. It's better to end such critical friendships. If you imagine a real critical situation Horror 2022, how would your partner react then? Such people simply fall over in critical situations. or put additional strain on the situation. You are then better off alone.
I think the use of dybbuk instead of bipolar or borderliner is great. In the past, we also used the term manic-depressive when someone was jumping around completely crazy. But the psychologists need a fashionable word again.
Back to me: when the woman left, I thought I was going completely crazy. But the opposite was the case. My heartbeat ( plus ) normalised to 65 ( ! ) before I had up to 110 !.
My doctor said that this showed how negative this woman had been. She could have cost me a few years of my life!
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Here in high school, we are always preached to how polite the French are. But what I read here is anything but polite. It's brutal, wacky and exploitative. The type is to be finished with the washing up nevertheless simply. I, in his place would have simply dropped a few plates. That would have signaled: stop ....ing with me!
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I lived in France for years. Usually the grandfather helps in the kitchen. Older people who are just family friends can help in the kitchen. But they do not have to ! As described in this article, where the girlfriend's holiday was paid for, it would be an absolute impertinence to expect her to help in the kitchen. If they had done that to me, I would have left on the spot. I think you put up with too much. You see what comes out of it. In the end, the lady thinks she is in the right!Kommentar
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Let's leave aside the exact determination of the disease. However, it is obvious that the woman has problems and tries to compensate for the intellectual and financial advantage. To put it simply, the envy causes mental pain and is weakened by changing the reality into an illusory reality.
This is also a character problem. She can't stand the fact that you have money and (probably) a better education. So she comes up with such silliness as doing the dishes or cleaning the dishes and "forgets" that you paid for the vacation. The difference in level has apparently caused her pain. There you have only the choice to play the idiot for her, so that she is satisfied or to go. I would recommend you the latter !Kommentar
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latter ? or later ?
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Thank you very much for your advice and information !
I would like to tell you briefly how things went.
I was really sad for a few days. Then came two neutral weeks. I had a few other acquaintances and a woman who had proven to be a good friend before offered to comfort me. From this a new love developed and healed the pain of separation very quickly. There is a saying : "nothing better comes after". In my case, this is not true.
Interesting information by the way : With the problem acquaintance I had an average pulse of 110. With the new girlfriend it has dropped to 70. She relaxes me and is good for my health.
Quae nocent, docent !Amicus Plato, sed magis amica veritasKommentar
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I followed the post about the partner problems during the heat with excitement. A really interesting story with a happy ending ! God bless you !Betongold forever !Kommentar
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Seen as a whole, almost a "psychological study" . Through the loose fluffy text one overlooks the deep problematic background, which is characterized by the sleep apnea. In connection with other problems (distance to the son, etc.) there is probably a serious psychological disorder. I strongly recommend contacting a specialist.Kommentar
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Neuer Texet arbiet dranKommentar
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@ Horror 2022 - have read your texts with great attention. How did it go on ? Are you together again ?Kommentar
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