interessanter Beitrag - habe ihn in andere Sprachen übersetzt, denn das Thema Mobbing ist international !

Cordilane - Hello, it's the same for me. I've also got a lot of neighbours against me and I've been getting hassled every day for years. In the meantime, I've decided to move as many times as necessary until I'm in peace. I've already contacted the landlord, the police and a lawyer. It's really sad that there are neighbours who see no other purpose in life than to bully their neighbours....

Cordilane - Bonjour, c'est pareil pour moi. J'ai aussi beaucoup de voisins contre moi et je me fais embêter tous les jours depuis des années. Entre-temps, j'ai décidé de déménager autant de fois que nécessaire jusqu'à ce que je sois tranquille. J'ai déjà fait appel au propriétaire, à la police et à un avocat. C'est vraiment triste qu'il y ait des voisins qui ne voient pas d'autre sens à leur vie que de tyranniser leurs voisins.

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Tricca
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I would say that the neighbor is delusional and does strange things. And to describe these strange things to someone fails and you have to realize that you shouldn't do it either, because you get problems because others think you are crazy or just want to get rid of your neighbor.
Now there are people with delusions who also have a personality disorder and that's when it gets intense. And if that person is a woman, that's the worst thing that can happen to you.

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Je dirais que le voisin a des hallucinations et fait des choses bizarres. Et décrire ces choses étranges à quelqu'un échoue et il faut constater qu'on ne devrait pas le faire non plus, car on a des problèmes parce que les autres pensent que l'on est fou ou que l'on veut juste se débarrasser de son voisin.
Maintenant, il y a aussi des gens qui ont des illusions et qui ont en plus un trouble de la personnalité, et là ça devient violent. Et si cette personne est une femme, c'est la super catastrophe qui peut arriver.

Choquant - à lire absolument !

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Quote from Immobilie
An educational measure then . In principle a bit harsh, but that's for the school management to decide.

Why do you find it so severe?...

Citation de Immobilie
Une mesure éducative donc . En principe, c'est un peu violent, mais c'est à la direction de l'école d'en juger.

pourquoi trouves-tu cela si violent ?

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... ... first arrest pupils who she can prove are being bullied in front of everyone in the class and lead them across the schoolyard in handcuffs ...

... then suddenly handcuffed all the pupils who could be proven to have been bullied...


Sorry Tomy, but your story doesn't seem credible to me. Can you describe it in more detail?


Why not credible? What else would you like to know?
The police found out from statements made by the pupils and from looking at the mobile phones of some pupils that they had bullied a girl in the class. The police took the pupils, who were all about 17 years old, in handcuffs to the patrol cars to make their misbehaviour clear...

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... arrêter des élèves dont elle a pu prouver le harcèlement devant tout le monde dans la classe et les emmener menottés dans la cour de l'école ...

... puis, tout à coup, menotte tous les élèves dont le harcèlement a été prouvé ...


Désolé Tomy, mais ton histoire ne me semble pas crédible. Peux-tu la décrire un peu plus précisément ?


Pourquoi pas crédible ? Que veux-tu savoir de plus ?
La police a constaté, sur la base des déclarations des élèves et en regardant dans les téléphones portables de certains d'entre eux, qu'ils avaient harcelé une fille de la classe. La police a menotté les élèves, qui avaient tous environ 17 ans, et les a emmenés dans...

Le harcèlement moral est visible et personne ne s'en soucie ? Les lois promulguées ne sont pas importantes ?

Cher forum,
Je souffre depuis mon enfance d'un trouble de stress post-traumatique complexe. Mon traumatisme de développement a résulté du traumatisme de guerre de mes parents, qui étaient tous deux absents, brisés intérieurement et chaotiques en raison des terribles atrocités de guerre vécues lorsqu'ils étaient enfants, et ce sans traitement.
Malheureusement, ma vie est restée marquée par la peur et la panique, malgré de nombreuses années de thérapie.
En 2019, j'ai enfin osé faire la demande d'un degré de handicap. Lorsque j'ai commencé à travailler pour une administration de Basse-Saxe en 2021, j'étais...

Dear forum,
I have suffered from complex post-traumatic stress disorder since childhood. My developmental trauma resulted from the war traumatization of my parents, who were both absent without treatment, internally shattered and chaotic as a result of the terrible war atrocities they experienced as children.
Unfortunately, my life is still characterized by fear and panic, despite many years of therapy.
In 2019, I finally dared to take the step of applying for a degree of disability. When I started working for an IT authority in Lower Saxony in 2021, I was overjoyed, but my happiness was short-lived. My line manager J**** had also entrusted me with tasks from his project manager to save his head. I was given tasks that I...

Already bullying or hypersensitive?

The title says it all.
I work with a small group of colleagues in a department in a larger company. For a while now, I've noticed some negative things, for example that organizational matters are discussed without me and I'm often left clueless. I don't know whether this is a coincidence or intentional. At meetings, the department sits together and only I sit at another table. Sometimes people go to the canteen together, but no one has ever asked me. They're normally friendly towards me, so there's no question of open rejection. But I'm sure they talk about me behind my back, that's the feeling. The head of department doesn't show it openly either, she mostly ignores me. I know that I was...

What do you think of it when the police come to school and arrest the pupils who they can prove are being bullied in front of everyone in the class and lead them around the schoolyard in handcuffs as an educational measure to teach them a lesson? I experienced this myself in my class when the police came to my class for a bullying prevention program and then suddenly handcuffed all the students who were found to be bullying....