The members of the senior citizens‘ club are old. Hence the name. Most members also have health problems. Consideration and compassion are therefore prerequisites for a good atmosphere in a senior citizens’ club.
I have been a member of such a club for more than three years. We play games, paint and also do sports together. The atmosphere is relaxed. Everyone knows each other's health problems and takes them into consideration.

Now a younger man comes along, complains about his illnesses and starts to play the boss. He couldn't care less about other people's health problems.

Specifically: we play ‘boules’ in a group. When the weather is bad, we play in a covered room. When the weather is good, we...

Hello,
sorry for the long text. But I thought I'd start from the beginning and describe a current situation in a bit more detail. Maybe it doesn't sound that bad, but the suffering has been there for a bit longer.
I am currently feeling very uncomfortable again with my employer, where I have been working since April 2019. So, I came there in April 2019 through a staffing agency and was taken on permanently in October 2020.

I was supposed to document the work instructions for an area there, some of which did not exist until then. In retrospect, the training did not go as expected. In addition, I was not really welcomed with open arms. At least that's how I felt. But in my creative way, I was able to familiarize myself...

Research has shown that being a victim of bullying or even being a bully can lead to various health issues. Some of the ways bullying can make you sick include:

Mental Health Problems: Bullying can lead to anxiety, depression, and other psychological disorders. Victims may experience feelings of helplessness, isolation, and low self-esteem, which can have long-lasting impacts on their mental well-being.

Physical Health Issues: The stress and emotional toll of bullying can weaken the immune system, making individuals more susceptible to illnesses and infections. Frequent stress can also lead to headaches, stomachaches, and other physical complaints.

Sleep Disturbances: Bullying can disrupt sleep patterns,...

Topic "Private preservation of evidence


Bullying is a nagging issue, but one that should not be underestimated. There are different types of bullying, including verbal, psychological, physical and social bullying, among others. Psychological bullying, for example, involves isolating, ignoring, and ostracizing colleagues, making it a widespread issue in organizations.

How does psychological bullying occur?

There are many reasons why psychological bullying occurs. If it relates to the work environment, for example, it usually starts with negative behavior patterns and conflicts at the workplace. Causes can be an unclear distribution of roles, a bad working atmosphere or an unclear or bad leadership...

I am new here on the forum and I have a question on my mind that has been going through my head for weeks. Does my partner want to get rid of me by bullying me? Briefly about my problem: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost four years now and until three months ago we got along great, but since then our relationship has cooled down quite a bit. At first I thought it could be fixed, but now I have my doubts. My boyfriend tries to beat me up every day. For example, he nags me about my appearance and tells me things like: Lose weight, you're getting fatter and fatter, and he uses every opportunity to show me how stupid I am in his eyes. The bad thing is that I'm already starting to feel self-doubt, which makes me feel self-conscious....

I work in the IT industry in change management. In this I have to show what positive changes are needed to achieve the impact on the business. I have the impression that foreigners who are too critical in this regard have a "bad reputation" with IT companies and end up not being hired. It seems that the only option is to leave Germany and look for a job abroad.

This year it has once again really shredded in our family. I don't know exactly what started it. It could have been the discussion about a nasty tattoo or the TV program. But it doesn't matter now. My brother-in-law suddenly stood by the Christmas tree and held it with one hand. Then he said: should I knock the ....ing thing over now ?
His wife had already enjoyed a few alcoholic drinks, says: yes knock him over. As nasty as it is !
Someone intervened and said: with the cheap gifts we don't need a tree either. A little girl, probably my niece, sitting invisibly under the table, began to sob. The tree became more and more crooked.
Finally, my father, a former teacher, shouted and the class, or rather family, stopped. The meal...

Hello, I am new here in this forum...... Mobbing.net / bullying
I have been experiencing massive insulting from strangers for a few years now, it makes me very angry and triggers my anxiety, and you can see the tension and fear and anger on my face,.
I am intimidated by it, and these people who devalue and insult other people naturally feel bigger by it, and feel validated .
I am very angry about it and reject these people, which somehow fuels the whole thing, and these people continue to do, and in their pack then reinforce each other, and connect, because such things connect people of course.
I for me see , that completely different, because I find such a connection very disgusting, and with such people would like...

I have read some posts and come to the conclusion that probably quite a few bullying problems are due to hypersensitivity, even imagination - negative fantasies. There are whispers behind my back ... But what is being whispered ? Is it really something negative ?
Colleagues bow their heads when I walk by. Yes, but maybe they do the same with other people. Because they don't want to have their mouths open.
Then there's the sabotage of work equipment, computers, etc.
I have a computer in a room that is locked off from me. Nevertheless, there are always problems. Especially printouts cause problems again and again. This is nobody's fault. Except perhaps the manufacturer.
What if the computer and the printer were in the...

My neighbor's mental illness has now been confirmed to me by his acquaintance. Already earlier I had noticed that he did strange things and expressed strange thoughts. But only through a conversation with an acquaintance of his, I realized how bad it really is.
We live in such a way that again and again, due to an error in the navigation equipment, people arrive at our house in the yard, although they actually wanted to go to the neighbor's house. Every now and then we get into a conversation with these people. Some time ago, a middle-aged woman came into the courtyard, who actually wanted to go to our neighbor. It turned out that she told us that she has problems with him. We also have problems with him, so we shared our experiences...

Hello, I have been together with my boyfriend for about half a year. Therefore, I don't know him very well in terms of character yet and I suspect that I am being bullied by him or his friends. They are not all his friends, but only two specific ones from his circle of friends. When one of them or both of them are visiting us and I'm not standing right there during conversations, they whisper to my friend behind my back. And I'm not imagining it, because whenever I join in, the voices get quieter and quieter. When I then ask what it's about, they just say they were talking about work. Then when the friends have left, my friend is like changed and behaves downright vicious. Therefore, I suspect a connection with the whispering of the friends....

Why does one bind oneself over a longer period to a person who is obviously bad and malicious? Well, this is a question I have asked myself quite often and I was able to find some very important explanations for it. Love can simply make us weak and also blind to a certain extent. Thus one begins then straight also in the initial phase of getting to know many relevant things to overlook or completely consciously fade out. Sometimes you just look at the other person through rose-colored glasses and overlook the literally ugly sides of a person. Thus the partner makes perhaps again and again degrading and biting remarks. However, bullying can not always necessarily only verbal, but also in a completely different way expressed. Thus one can be...

Hello, I have a question for you guys. Does it count as bullying if I am treated badly by my boyfriend? I don't mean once in a while, but all the time. He constantly has something to complain about and everything I do is not good enough for him. He does work, but when he gets home he doesn't lift a finger and instead puts all the work on me, even though I'm working full time too. If something takes him too long, he yells at me again and often he even insults me with really bad swear words. I know that this is not normal, but I would be interested to know if what he is doing to me is possibly already bullying. My parents and my friends have already advised me to separate from this man, but I just can't do it. Sometimes I think to myself that...

I can't believe I was in this relationship for so long. I thought it would get better but it only got worse. He kept yelling at me, calling me names and making me feel like I wasn't worth anything. And then he lies to everyone about how happy we are. It's like he wants people to think I'm a crazy person who deserves all the abuse. I don't know what to do anymore. I have been a victim of bullying, violence, and sexual abuse. I was lied to, cheated on, and deceived. I was made to feel like I was nothing and that no one cared about me. I felt like I had no one to turn to and that the world was against me. I was depressed, scared, and alone. But I am no longer a victim. I am a survivor. I am strong and I am resilient. I survived something that...

I am new here on the forum and I have a question on my mind that has been going through my head for weeks. Does my partner want to get rid of me by bullying me? My boyfriend and I have been together for almost four years now and until three months ago we got along great, but since then our relationship has cooled down quite a bit. At first I thought it could be fixed, but now I have my doubts. My boyfriend tries to get me down on a daily basis. For example, he nags me about my appearance and tells me things like: Lose weight, you're getting fatter and fatter, and he uses every opportunity to show me how stupid I am in his eyes. The bad thing is that I'm already starting to feel self-doubt, which makes me feel self-conscious. I feel as if he...